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Anger Affecting the Body
from:Anger affects our body in many ways. When we'are angry we often feel stressed, betrayed, hurt and our body is tense with our stomach in knots. When we feel this way, the world seems to tumble around us as if our best friend has packed up and left us behind.
If loneliness creeps in very often we feel as if the whole world is an illusion and everyone is out of his or her minds. There are times we want to run and hide and there are times we simply want to find the person that caused our hurt and beat them to a bloody pulp. We know we can't do this since it's illegal and it doesn't really help our problems.
Rather, when we blow up fusing our anger on someone else, we're only adding heartache to heartache. Sometimes we all fail to see there's a solution to many problems, but when we use up our last resources and nothing is left, then where do we turn? How do we find our way out? If you're feeling as if there's nothing left in the world for you and that you've run out of answers to many questions, then you're not alone.
One effective way to look at your situation is to know that someone else is suffering worse than you are. Forcing your mind to remain positive can help when times are difficult. When you've been betrayed, robbed, manipulated, lied to, hurt and you feel the other person is getting away with something. Remember, the bad people always pay a higher price than what they induce on the victim. It may take some time, but you'll see that in the end the bad person will pay a high price for his or her behavior.
If you've been victimized, rather than venting your anger in a negative light, try using your intellect and resources to enforce that the person is paying for the crime committed against you. If you're merely struggling from common problems, then remember to try to take it one day at a time. Try to find some humor in your situation. Laughter is always a source for relieving anger.
When you feel your stomach knot, try to focus on something positive and go do your chores. Anytime we burn energy, we're burning emotions that are the root of anger. If you enjoy writing, sit down and write an article, book, story, or a simple journal. Write down your feelings, how you view the world, and the people in the world. Try to find a way to put some humor between the lines so that you can laugh when you look back at what you wrote.
If your body is tense, go for a walk and try to admire the beautiful scenery that God provided us. Keep in mind when you're walking that something good comes from bad. This may not make sense, but if you look back at your many problems and how you dealt with them, you'll see a series of good fortunes that came your way.
We can all make more of a situation than what really exists and we all need to stay focused to survive the game of life. If you feel that you're centered out for punishment, then think of the men in war, the children in abused homes, or the wives who are tortured by their own spouse.
Now look at your situation again. Are you homeless? Do you have a roof over your head? Do you have food in your kitchen? Do you have your bills paid? If this is true then why are you mad? Anytime we're angered, our body is affected and this causes harm to our health.
Is anything worth destroying your self-being, including your body and mind? Is anything worth losing your respect? If you're angry, think before you act, because impulsive behavior leads to problems that are more complicated. When you feel as if the world is tumbling down, pick up your torture stake and walk another mile.
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