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Several factors need to be met for us to
achieve happiness. These prerequisites include:
Good
Health
Health is wealth. Good health is a very
important factor in achieving happiness. It allows us to make life
more enjoyable. On the other hand, an illness not only drains the
pocket, but it also destroys our zest in life.
 Therefore, the body must be
treated well, pampered with love, and given the needed nourishment.
We take good care of it by taking preventive measures. We can opt to
engage in a healthy lifestyle by eating the right foods and doing
regular exercise.
Sufficient Source of
Income
Basic income should meet the family's basic
needs. This frees us from worries about basic needs and concentrates
on pursuing what we love best.
Basic needs vary from one
family to another. What is implied here is income to provide for
reasonable food, clothing, and shelter. What is reasonable and
enough depends upon the family's needs.
Affection
Love
is the foundation of human existence. We need to feel loved to be
happy. It is crucial that we have at least one person whose company
we enjoy to share our life with. This does not have to be a romantic
relationship. A family member or a friend can fill this need.
Productive Work or
Activity
 People feel a sense of achievement just by knowing that
they can still contribute their skills and are needed by the people
around them. Doing productive work or activity boosts our
self-confidence and self-esteem, which eventually leads to
happiness.
Good Atitude
A
person with a negative attitude in life can never be happy. A
positive attitude is needed to ensure long and lasting happiness. A
perfectionist would likely be upset when the world is not the way he
wants it, but a person with a positive attitude would be tolerant
and understanding with all kinds of people, events, and
circumstances.
Defined Goals
In
achieving happiness, goals must be set for all aspects of life such
as business, career, relationships, health, etc. After setting our
goals, we must make an action plan on how to achieve these goals. We
then implement our plan and monitor the progress. Continuous
progress leads to a sense of fulfillment and
happiness. Unless
all of the above prerequisites are met, we cannot be truly and
completely happy. Failing to meet any one of them is tantamount to
forgetting one ingredient that makes a recipe completely satisfying!
It is therefore very important that we are healthy in all aspects –
physically, mentally, emotionally and financially – to be able to
achieve lasting happiness.
Fifth key to happiness:
Happiness is a way of life.
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