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They discovered that people who
maintained a positive attitude were significantly less likely to
show signs of aging. They were less likely to become weak and more
likely to be stronger and healthier than those who have negative
attitude.
 What else did these researchers
discover?
They also found out that beliefs have a
direct impact on health -- because our beliefs actually alter our
body's chemical balance.
So let us start thinking
positively! Change the way we think and believe. We alone have the
power to improve our lives by having a positive attitude and a
positive belief system. We can start by believing in the power of
God/the Universe and prayer. Trust that whatever we ask of Him, He
will surely give it to us knowing that we have pure
intentions.
Researchers have also proven that a positive
thinker is more likely to succeed in life because positive thinking
boosts self-esteem and self-confidence.
Perk It
Up
Understandably, life can be boring sometimes. Our
daily routine becomes very monotonous when we do the same old things
everyday. We can try to add new things into our lives, among these
are the following:
1. Visit new and exciting places. Doing
this keeps life very exciting.
2. Try to do something new --
something never done before, like taking up a new sport or
hobby.
3. Do enjoyable
things. These will not only give us pleasure and excitement, but
also keep our worries away. A worry-free life means a longer,
healthier, and happier life.
4. For a change, we should try
out the things we dread to do. Overcoming our fears is the only way
to free ourselves from limitations. By doing this, we will gain more
confidence and feel greater happiness.
Love
Life
Love makes the world go round. The need for love lies at
the very core of our existence as human beings. Love brings us the
greatest happiness because we treasure it over and above everything
else. We cannot and will not survive if we are left alone by
ourselves.
The foundation of human existence is
love. The expression of love is the primal factor for the
normal, physical, and mental growth of children. Love can be
expressed in many ways like hugging, kissing, cuddling, and
caressing.
If a child does not get any of these, then
his or her development may be impaired. A well-loved child grows up
into a confident, secure, and happy adult. In this age, many
children grow up in broken and unhappy homes. Unhappiness in
childhood may lead to a serious problem in later life. A child who
does not receive the affection he or she needs will find it hard to
love others.
Aside from children, we can extend love to sick
people. Patients feel at ease when the doctor is especially friendly
and displays a sincere concern for their well-being. Inevitably, the
patients' feelings and reactions will make a difference to the
quality of their recovery.
This is the theory of the
famous Dr. Hunter Patch Adams, who built a hospital where love and
laughter are integral parts of the healing process. In this
hospital, The Gesundheit Institute, doctors and patients relate to
each other based on mutual trust. Patch Adam's theory on healing is
based on his belief that laughter is the best cure.
Appreciate Blessings
Happiness is
learning to draw satisfaction and contentment from whatever
available resources we may have. Consider these as our
blessings!
However, there are people who find it difficult to be
contented. In most cases, the problem lies in their nature. These
are the kind of people who always think negatively and take life so
seriously. Rather than being content and grateful for what they
have, they are focused on what is wrong with their lives and on
their obsessive need to fix problems.
The very act of
focusing on imperfection and negatives pulls us away from our goal
to be happy. The solution here is to catch ourselves when we fall
into the habit of insisting that things should be other than what
they are. Conditioning the mind to reject negative thoughts, which
later turn to negative emotions, requires a lot of determination.
There should be an inner desire to remove such thoughts. As we begin
to eliminate the negative thoughts in all areas of our life, we will
begin to discover the positive side of life
itself.
We appreciate our blessings
by:
* Maintaining an optimistic attitude * Living
our dreams * Understanding that failure is not the end of the
world * Welcoming new challenges and experiences * Working on
important goals * Thinking about our past successes and not
failures * Trying to find goodness in everything and every
person A
long, healthy and happy life is what we all aspire for. However,
there is no single absolute way to arrive at this kind of life. We
can consider tips and guidelines to hasten our journey and to make
it smoother. Put these into action and be pleasantly surprised by
their inherent power of life transformation!
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